Alicia Ngiaw Sze Sien

If I have a choice to marry a bride, my choice is Alicia Ngiaw Sze Sien. She is not a perfect wife, but for the past 11 years I have regarded her as my girlfriend and wife to be. If Alicia is not meant to be my wife, I wish to marry Guan Shi Yin Pusa ie 观世音菩萨 Avalokitesvara Bodhisattva and practise celibacy and continence for the rest of my life. I have also adopted a cat named Alicia to love. 

I wish to practise the Buddhist training precepts and I wish to devote the rest of my life to Buddhist scriptures and dharma practice instead of running a household, in as far as Alicia is imperfect, likewise I am also imperfect. Unless a girl such as Alicia wants me to be her husband for whatever the reason, I pledge to let serendipity take its own course. I won't chase after any woman and instead I vow to let them come after me. I wish to use this vow to convert women to Buddhism and use my five senses as beacons of enlightenment to evangelise women into Buddhism and help the Buddha recruit good women for the Buddhist cause. 

This shall henceforth be the basis of my third Buddhist training vow: Refrain from sexual misconduct.